Bisexual confession: I choose a partner is to look at character, not gender
I like a person, so just like him, that is so simple
Eric, a 32-year-old designer who is a web designer, said, "I have long answered thousands of times because of the curiosity of others." I remembered the film on the network called "a few questions that should not ask comrades", and suddenly felt that the next question I wanted to ask was so rude, but fortunately Eric was probably used to saying that he did not mind Solemnly declare that as a bisexuality, he chooses the partner 's standard to be a character rather than a gender. "I like a person, so just like him is so simple."
Literally, of course very simple, but in fact, as Eric's mouth "layman", to imagine this feeling, but very difficult. Eric said his first love in high school, and the same class of girls exchanges for a year, only to the stage of caress, so when he did not notice their own special, until the university when he was working in the restaurant, but like another male colleagues,
The other is the veteran, so quickly happened to the relationship. "I was gay, but I was gay, but I had a girlfriend," said Eric, who said he was most perplexed during that period. He even doubted that it was not because of the pure love of high school. To develop a relationship, only to make him mistakenly think they will like girls, "I even thought to find a girl to one night, you know, just want to be a test."
Eric, a 32-year-old designer who is a web designer, said, "I have long answered thousands of times because of the curiosity of others." I remembered the film on the network called "a few questions that should not ask comrades", and suddenly felt that the next question I wanted to ask was so rude, but fortunately Eric was probably used to saying that he did not mind Solemnly declare that as a bisexuality, he chooses the partner 's standard to be a character rather than a gender. "I like a person, so just like him is so simple."
Literally, of course very simple, but in fact, as Eric's mouth "layman", to imagine this feeling, but very difficult. Eric said his first love in high school, and the same class of girls exchanges for a year, only to the stage of caress, so when he did not notice their own special, until the university when he was working in the restaurant, but like another male colleagues,
The other is the veteran, so quickly happened to the relationship. "I was gay, but I was gay, but I had a girlfriend," said Eric, who said he was most perplexed during that period. He even doubted that it was not because of the pure love of high school. To develop a relationship, only to make him mistakenly think they will like girls, "I even thought to find a girl to one night, you know, just want to be a test."
Suspected that they are gay, want to find a woman "test" look
Eric did not find a one-night stand, but his test chance soon came. Sophomore year, he participated in high school students, once again see the first love, become more beautiful, more feminine, and he found himself still a small deer hit. At that time is the winter vacation, the other side from the county outside the city back to the New Year, they meet the movie, it is natural hand, kiss, and finally completed the year did not finish things.
Sexual impulses is a male instinct, but when the impulse in the past, reason back to my mind, Eric did not know what to do, "I do not know how to tell her I am not single, and I have not a girlfriend but boyfriend" , Eric smile, but fortunately girls admitted frankly, she has a boyfriend, winter vacation finished, girls back to school, the two gradually broken contact, but also eliminates the effort to explain Eric.
"I can not go home and ask my dad to say," Hey, dad, I'm going to get tough with a man and a woman, "he said. Homosexuality "right?" So he can only cheeky boyfriend admits. Surprisingly, her boyfriend, though a bit of emotion, but not really angry, "If you insist that boys and girls are not the same, then the boys seem to understand what is impulsive," Eric said.
The psychiatrist helped me clarify myself
"I have seen the psychiatrist." Eric has made a lot of effort to clarify his sexuality. "Under the guidance of a doctor, I found that I liked the object, both men and women, have the same qualities."
Eric sums up the objects he likes, and finds that he / they are mostly water signs, gentle, inclusive, , As for the appearance, are also biased in favor of white, clean type. "I try to remember the moment of my own heart, and that is often the time when I find that they know how to take care of people."
This discovery gives Eric a new understanding of himself, at least, he no longer doubts himself In the end like a woman or a man, because he knows that he likes, is gentle and considerate, good to listen to the good people.
As a bisexual, occasionally with his girlfriend to go home, parents did not doubt his sexual orientation, and Eric lucky to have two brothers, the responsibility of the line, but also fell to his head. "Mom and Dad occasionally will be broken to think about it," but since the two brothers have been married and have children, Eric is also happy single.
He does not exclude the set - whether it is with men or women, just did not encounter that kind of object. "Sometimes I will think that if the" right person "is a girl, that thing is much easier, but it does not seem to be able to decide," Eric said, many of his male comrades were forced to marry, Always want to find a Lara marriage, but he wanted to meet a bisexual girls, "Maybe she will be the most understanding of my people, who knows?"
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